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How to Write a Good Profile
How to Write a Good Profile
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People often underestimate how important it is to have a good profile text, as a result the visitors who comes to your profile, don't get interested enough to push the contact button and make that important first contact. Writing a good profile is actually not that hard, the hard part is finding the right words to describe you as a kinky person.

 

Let me show you how to find the right words for your profile. It does not matter if you are seeking a kinky partner or looking for like-minded friends, this method works for everyone.

 

First you want to print out this profile sheet or just make a rough copy of the design on a piece of paper.

Who are you?

Start by writing down a list of your personal kinks. These are the things that you are into and what turns you on! Latex, BDSM, leather, stockings, high heels, domination, long hair, biting, scratching – are all kinks, you can also check this list. When you the list is complete, prioritize it and note down the top five kinks on your profile sheet.

 

Next write down a list of all your personal qualities. Open minded, respectful, kind, generous, funny, smart, educated – are all personal qualities. When completed, prioritize the list and note down the top five personal qualities on your profile sheet.

 

Next make a list of role models, people that you admire and look up to and who inspire you. In and outside the kink community. Write down their name and a short three keywords list with the reasons that you look up to them. Select up to four role models from your list that don’t have matching qualities and put them and their personal qualities on to your profile sheet, circle the top five qualities that stand out to you.

 

Use your top kinks, qualities and role models to describe what you are into, who you are and what you would like to become.

What are you seeking?

What type of relationship do you dream of – friendship, partnership or something else? Make a list of what your ideal relationship should contain. Partnerships might include specific activities and friendships others. When you the list is complete, prioritize it and note down it down on your profile sheet.

 

By using the words from the top of the list to make it clear what you are seeking and what you are expecting from a relationship. Focus less of the “nice to have” things in the lower part of your list.

What’s your type?

Make a list of four profiles that you would see as a ideal match preferably from the site that you are writing this profile for. If you are looking for a partner, list the names of your dream partners, if you are looking for a friend or a mentor, list the names of the most ideal matches. Make a short keyword list for each profile, listing their unique traits and what makes them desirable. Note that some traits might shared and others unique, circle the top five traits that stand out to you.

 

By using the top five traits to describe the kind of person you are looking for, you are actually matching the profiles that you used.

 

As a bonus this is also a great tool to verify profiles who contact you. The person who contact you might not have the top traits, but still be interesting as they share traits with multiple people on your list.

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  •  Gumminos_L wrote 3222 Days Ago (neutral) 
     
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    3xL har så rätt. Det behövs bättre profiltexter.
    Skriv din ålder, för den har trots allt betydelse. Tänk på att erfarenheter, värderingar, möjligheter, ekonomi mm. ofta varierar med åldern.
    Om du på något sätt önskar träffa någon i verkligheten underlättar det om du skriver ungefär var du bor. Det behöver inte vara detaljerat, men ange gärna närmast stora stad eller landskap.
    I beskrivningen är det alltid bra om du kan skilja på fantasier om vad du tror, att du skulle vilja uppleva och vad du verkligen har upplevt.
    Var ärlig. Nämn gärna om du redan lever i ett fast förhållande, så att du inte inger falska förhoppningar.
    Lägg gärna med en egen profilbild. Det är inte särskilt lyckat att lägga in en häftig bild, som du kanske "lånat" på nätet.
     
       
     
     
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